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Thursday, January 13, 2011

Listening is Love


I recently came across three short paragraphs on listening written by Henri Nouwen. He was a priest, a scholar, a professor at Yale and Harvard, and an author. But, my favorite of his writings are from when he worked with the poor in Peru or the developmentally disabled in France. He wrote essentially that in those environments, all his accomplishments didn't matter. A lesson I need to remember daily. 

I'm not sure when these writings were written, but enjoy. I will post the other two soon.


 Listening as Spiritually Hospitable - by Henri Nouwen
“To listen is very hard, because it asks of us so much interior stability that we no longer need to prove ourselves by speechless, arguments, statements, or declarations. True listeners no longer have an inner need to make their presence known. They are free to receive, to welcome, to accept.
Listening is much more than allowing another to talk while waiting for a chance to respond. Listening is paying full attention to others and welcoming them into our very beings. The beauty of listening is that those who are listened to start feeling accepted, start taking their words more seriously and discovering their true selves. Listening is a form of spiritual hospitality by which you invite strangers to become friends, to get to know their inner selves more fully, and even to dare to be silent with you. “

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